1. Find a wedding photographer who understands what it’s like to be an introvert. They won’t ask you to do silly things (unless you want to) that would make you uncomfortable or put on the spot, and they will be more sensitive to the way you are and be able to relate and understand.
2. Meet with your photographer ahead of time, have some one-on-one time, get to know each other. It will help your photographer to better prepare for the day and it will help you to feel more at ease with them prior to your big day so it’s not like a stranger is following you around with a camera in your face during some of the most intimate moments of your life. (Oops, sorry didn’t mean to scare you ;)
3. Ask your wedding photographer what should you expect and do they have a “wedding day photography plan” that will be available prior to the wedding day? This way you can discuss with them how things will go (or the goal, as things do sometimes and often times change up just a tad bit) and you will be able to know when you should expect things to go throughout the day.
4. Tell your photographer that you’re an introvert who feels uncomfortable around cameras. If your photographer knows this, he/she will know how to approach the more “posed” photos during your wedding day. For example, your photographer will know to back away and give you a break from the camera from time to time, and if you need some alone time to just breathe for a bit, your photographer will know not to follow you during these times.